From chat to bed: “I slept with 15 girls in 30 days”
Es klingt unglaublich, aber es ist möglich: Anstatt die Dating-Portale nach unseren normalen Testkategorien zu bewerten, hat Teammitglied Hendrik sie einem realen Check unterzogen. Er wollte wissen, ob es wirklich möglich ist, jeden zweiten Abend mit einer anderen schönen Frau ins Bett zu gehen. Und das ist es! Wie er das geschafft hat, verrät er uns hier.
What might sound unbelievable actually turned out to be possible: Team member Hendrik actually put it to the test. He wanted to know whether or not it was possible to sleep with a different woman every second night. And it’s actually possible! How did he pull this off? He shares his experiences with us here.
I’ve always had great experiences with sex dating websites. But everything was just too slow for me. Not all women answered my messages and frequently we just ended up sending each other messages. That got on my nerves, which is why I decided to change my strategy to get results.
I set out to prepare diligently – nothing comes from nothing, after all! I created a new account with our test winner. To be completely honest, I wasn’t fully convinced of our number 1 in the beginning. The rest of the team had great experiences, however, and so I was persuaded to give it a try. I simply wanted to prove them wrong, to be honest – but then my luck started.
My tips for more success
I prepared myself as follows to get the perfect experience:
- I created a user name with an air of mystery. My old account, “ICanDoIt69” became “TrampolineTester“. I used a hobby of mine to create a name that would linger in the heads of female members.
- I did not complete my profile honestly or with lots of details, but remained mysterious. I wanted to make sure that the women still had something to discover. I also decided to be a little bit dominant. (Believe me, women love dominant men, even though they never want to admit it in public!)
- I no longer used a photo of my torso in front of a mirror, which is what I used with my old profile, but rather chose a picture of me with a friend’s dog. I know… We’re all looking for a short-term thrill and don’t want to find the loves of our lives, but for some reason, the picture turned out to be a smash hit.
I created a Premium account and got started. At the beginning, I was really skeptical, because I decided to do things differently and pursue a strategy that I hadn’t used before (that didn’t turn out to be all that successful). I put all my eggs into one basket and wrote to about 50 women each day – with immediate success!
My first message: “Hey, I love jumping around on my trampoline in the garden with my dog. It’s simply liberating and you can feel the stress of everyday life evaporate. Would you like to try as well? There’s still space on my trampoline.”
Sex dates and dates to find the love of your life actually start in a similar way. I’ve discovered that women want to be courted. They actually have dirty fantasies, but you have to master the art of small talk before they actually feel free to live them out. After I’ve listened to the cares and needs of women, and actively asked questions to demonstrate that I’m a great listener, some women asked me whether I’d be interested in meeting them in person. As time went by, more and more women agreed to have a date with me as I used these tactics.
The dominant listener
Hard to believe, but I actually had to take a pen and paper to write down all the times and dates. At the end, I looked up, thinking, “I have a date every second night.” During the date, I flirted heavily with the girls, but only between the lines. I allowed them to talk and also to make the first move. The girls always wanted to meet up in public for the first date. So I suggested a hotel bar. I might’ve spent half a fortune on hotel rooms in this month, but it was worth every penny.
I learned and tried out so many things during this month. It was an incredible journey.
Some of the dates evolved into regular meet-ups. I’ve learnt that it is my task to take initiative and start by writing to a lot of girls. I had to play both roles in conversation: that of the dominant man and the shy listener. A tough combination to master in the beginning – but hey, it all paid off.
And now? Well, I’m blown away by our test winner. I should actually send the team that runs the platform flowers, but I’m saving for my next perfect month.